‘90 Day Fiancé’ star Angela Deem once tore husband Michael’s car, shoved him against wall prior to him going missing

“90 Day Fiancé” star Angela Deem once got into a physical altercation with her husband, Michael Ilesanm, long before he allegedly fled her home in the US out of “fear” for his life.

In a resurfaced clip from the hit TLC show that was initially released last September, Deem shows up to Ilesanm’s home in Nigeria unannounced and causes a scene after he refuses to take down his Instagram.

The reality star can be seen in the video banging on her husband’s door in the middle of the night, and when he doesn’t answer, she starts tearing apart his vehicle, which she claims is shared property.

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“You don’t respect my family, I don’t respect nobody,” she shouts outside the house before adding in a confessional interview, “It’s the middle of the night and I’m tired, but I’m really exhausted from Michael’s constant disrespect.”

As Deem continues to break apart Ilesanm’s bumper and the license plates on his car, he walks up, appearing confused, and asks, “What is the meaning of this?”

Deem then rushes over to assault him and throws a punch, but her husband holds up her arms as the reality TV cameras continue rolling. “Stop it,” he says, “Look at my car. What’s the meaning of this?”

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“Are you mad?” Ilesanm continues. “You can’t just come to my place like that. Are you crazy?”

As he becomes emotional, Deem ridicules him by calling him a “baby” for crying.

Ilesanm then kicks his wife out of his “compound” before emphatically shouting, “I’m done!”

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It appears the couple stayed together after filming wrapped, though, because Ilesanm reportedly flew to Georgia in December 2023 to meet up with Deem.

However, the TLC star took to TikTok earlier this week to claim her husband had been missing since Friday and offered her followers a $10,000 reward for his safe return.

Blogger John Yates then revealed Monday that Ilesanm had allegedly contacted police via a burner phone and told them he did not want Deem to know his whereabouts.

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“He told the police that he was in fear of his life here,” the YouTuber claimed.

Yates, who filmed the video alongside Deem, downplayed Ilesanm’s alleged concerns, pointing out that the Nigerian TV star and his wife had been Traveling to California, New York and Florida since his visit to the US so he was not “being locked up.”

The blogger also claimed in the clip that “Michael is safe,” to which Deem replied, “Thank God!”

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Ilesanm’s most recent Instagram post shows him and his wife smiling and sitting together at an airport.

“GUESS ?????? 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🇺🇸 🌎 🇺🇲” he captioned the photo on January 18.

Deem, for her part, has been posting a series of cryptic messages via her Instagram Stories, including one post on Thursday that read, “When trust is broken, sorry means nothing.”