nht.On my birthday today, I can’t help but wonder if the absence of well wishes is because they believe I’m not pretty. ‎

On my birthday today, I find myself grappling with a poignant question: could the absence of well wishes be attributed to the perception that I am not deemed pretty enough? As the day unfolds, I am confronted with a myriad of emotions, ranging from disappointment to introspection, as I navigate through this unexpected twist in the celebration of my special day.

The morning greets me with its usual hustle and bustle, yet there is a palpable sense of anticipation tinged with apprehension. As I glance at my phone, hoping to be greeted by a flood of birthday messages and notifications, I am met with silence. No cheerful greetings, no heartfelt wishes – just an empty inbox staring back at me.

At first, I brush it off as mere coincidence, attributing the lack of messages to the busyness of life or the distractions of modern-day living. But as the day wears on and the silence persists, a nagging doubt begins to creep into my mind. Could it be that my perceived lack of beauty is the reason behind the conspicuous absence of well wishes?

In a world where appearances often take precedence over substance, the notion that my worth may be tied to my physical appearance is a sobering realization. It forces me to confront the harsh reality that society’s standards of beauty have the power to dictate our worth and value in the eyes of others.

As I reflect on this revelation, I am filled with a mix of emotions – frustration at the superficiality of human interactions, sadness at the thought of being judged solely on external attributes, and a gnawing sense of insecurity that threatens to overshadow the joy of my special day.

But amidst the turmoil of emotions, there is also a glimmer of defiance – a determination to rise above society’s narrow definitions of beauty and to celebrate my worth beyond the confines of physical appearance. For true beauty lies not in the symmetry of features or the perfection of form, but in the depth of character, the kindness of spirit, and the resilience of heart.

So, on this birthday, I choose to reclaim my sense of worth and celebrate myself for who I truly am – flaws and all. I may not fit society’s mold of conventional beauty, but I am beautiful in my own unique way – a tapestry of scars and imperfections that tell the story of a life lived fully and authentically.

And as the day draws to a close, I realize that the absence of well wishes is not a reflection of my worth, but a testament to the superficiality of societal norms. For I am loved and cherished by those who see beyond the surface, who value me for the person I am beneath the facade of physical appearance.

So here’s to another year of embracing my true self, of celebrating my worth beyond the constraints of beauty standards, and of finding beauty in the authenticity of being unapologetically me. For true beauty knows no bounds and transcends the superficialities of society – it resides in the depths of the soul, where love, kindness, and authenticity reign supreme.